Let’s face it, as a man we want nothing more than the ability to just walk up to any girl that we think is attractive and get her number.

I mean, in a perfect world, we wouldn’t need to say anything and she’d happily exchange numbers with us and then let us seduce them. Well that’s my perfect world anyway.

But in reality, this just doesn’t happen.

I know it kind of sucks, but since we live in a society where we can’t just expect girls to like you for talking to them, you have to learn some tips and tricks in order to successfully get a girl interested in you.

If you want to know how to approach a girl and get her number, then let me tell you how to do it. But before I continue, you must understand that there are situations where no matter how awesome or charming or smooth you might be, you’ll get rejected.

Why?

Because sometimes, she really is taken.

Sometimes she’s in a bad mood.

Sometimes she’s busy.

Or sometimes shit just happens.

So if you don’t get a 100% success rate, then fret, NO ONE DOES!

How to approach a girl like a pro

1. Have the right timing

Did you know that a lot of the times guys fail at approach because they timed it wrong?

For example, sometimes they walk up to a woman and get shut down NOT because they said the wrong things, but because she’s just in a rush to get whatever she needs to do done in time!

As a guy, I know it takes a lot of balls to muster up the courage to say hi, but you have to understand that she has her own life too. You can’t simply walk into her conversation and expect her to happily grab out her phone and exchange numbers with you.

Life doesn’t revolve around seduction and pickup for her. So you need to make sure that whenever you approach a girl she will be at least capable of accepting your pickup.

I like to target girls who look like they are just strolling around and window shopping. The reason for this is because I KNOW that they have nothing better to do than just walking but and forwards staring at stuff they can’t buy.

It’s like an invitation for me to go up and get their number. It should be an invitation for you as well.

2.  Have a good opener

What I mean by this is to have an opener that easily transitions you to a fully fledged conversation. Do not say “Hi I think you’re pretty”. I mean, seriously what can she say in response to that apart from “thank you”. She’s not going to be like  ”thanks, and here’s my number for complimenting me”. You have to think of a way that will easily lead to a conversation naturally developing. Here are some generic openers that will lead to a natural conversation:

You: I had to just come here and talk to you, I saw you over there and if I didn’t say hi, I’d hate myself.  You look like a nice person, but I don’t know you yet. My name is Maurice. What’s yours?

Her: Beth

You: Cool Beth, I like your style and I want to talk to you a little more, but I’m in a rush, so I can’t stay for long. Let me ask you 3 quick questions and if we get along after those 3 questions we can be Facebook friends!

As you can see in this example I am giving her the idea that I think she’s good looking and I want to find out more about her without coming across as being needy or gay.

3. The actual approach

The more you wait and anticipate the harder it will be for you to approach. So as soon as you see an opening you should go for it. In the dating world there’s a rule called the 3 second rule. What this implies is that if you see a girl that is worth your attention, after 3 seconds of scoping her out and looking at who she’s with you will approach her without any questions. The reason for this is because if you wait for too long you’re going to end up scaring yourself too much and result in a lot of pressure being built up over nothing.

4. Make a killer impression

Remember when you approach a girl you only have like 30 seconds to impress her. That means you need to know what to say at the right time without looking nervous and displaying a lot of confidence in the way you carry yourself. I suggest that you approach a few other girls who you’re NOT interested in at first to warm yourself up before the one that you actually ARE interested in.

The reason for this is you get time to practice what you’re going to say and be able to test whether or not what you think might work actually does work.

Remember, nothing will teach you how to approach a girl more than personal experience. You should embrace rejection and see it as a necessary part of the learning process. The faster and more you get rejected the better at dating you will be and sooner or later you’ll be the one that’s giving advice on this topic to others.

But why is approaching such a big issue for most men?

Approaching a woman can bring different emotions to a guy, it can be intimidating if you don’t pass to her standards (if she has one), it can be frightening because you’ll never know what will happen after approaching her.

I mean, you might run the risk of getting rejected!

If you’re not scared of being rejected, you’re scared of something when it comes to approaching a girl.

Maybe it’s the fear of not knowing what to say next

Or you’re afraid that you’re not good enough for you.

But most of the time men are afraid of rejection.

Our fear of rejection constantly gets in the way from obtaining our goals.

But you know what?

This fear is actually unfounded. If you think about it rationally, what do you have to lose from the experience.

I mean, you never had her number to start off with.

The worst she can do is say “no” to you.

But what do you have to gain from it?

1. You can get her number and maybe have great interactions afterwards.
2. If you do get rejected you get more experience with approaching.

But what happens if you don’t approach at all?

1. You end up thinking “what if I…” then make up scenarios in  your mind and then you beat yourself up over it because you didn’t approach at all.
2. you don’t get any approaching experience
3. you miss the chance to get the number of an attractive girl.

So if you REALLY think about it, you have everything to gain from approaching.

But if you do NOT approach, you end up losing more than you can gain.

So in the future, don’t let the fear of approaching rejection slow you down.

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